Hey guys!
Welcome to my blog! If you're teenage girl...well you've come to he right place! I'm here to chat, give advice, answer questions, and be a friend :) Now, first things first...I'm a girl and I have girl problems and sometimes I need to vent! This may be where I do it! You can vent too! So don't be alarmed if it feels like I may need medical help due to uncontrollable ranting, I'm fine :)
I want to share a tiny experience that has grown into quite a large problem. I've never been obsessed with boys, like ever! Sure, I've had crushes, but nothing that ever consumes my life...until about a month ago! This is where it get's tricky ladies...this boy is cute, funny, loves God, and did I mention cute? Well I crushed hard! I would say "fell," but I didn't really fall...I crushed. I was consumed by this feeling of...well I'm not really sure what the feeling was, but it consumed every part of me! I was worrying about how I looked, how I acted, how I talked, and I was convinced that I needed to change every aspect of myself in order to be good enough for him. You know what's funny? After our first meeting, we never talked! So this is where you say, "Daylie! Get over it! Nothing can happen if you never talk!" and I would say, "You're right!" But it wasn't until about an hour ago that it actually hit me.
There is ONE guy out there for me. God has been preparing me for him, and vice versa! Everyday he is growing me as a woman in Him so that I may be the perfect wife. The man that I have will love me unconditionally, he will kiss me even when I look gross, he will hug me even when I say something stupid, he will help me raise our children to love God. I'm excited to meet this guy! He sounds perfect! And he's ALL for me!!! I don't have to worry about changing myself for a high school boy because high school boys can be idiots! And don't get me wrong! It's OK to put on makeup and get dressed up and do your hair! But do it for yourself; don't do it for a guy. So ladies, take my advice...wait. Be still and wait, and let God do his work! It will happen just at the right time; it may not be when you want it! But when you meet that special guy, you'll look back and say, "wow! This is what God has been doing all these years!" and you'll feel extremely blessed.
